In a heated Reddit post, a father narrates his refusal to finance his daughter’s wedding after she invited his estranged brother, who had an affair with his then-girlfriend two decades earlier. Despite the father’s long-standing rift with his brother, his daughter secretly built a relationship with him, leading to a confrontation.

“I told her what my boundaries are and if my brother is invited then I will not pay my part of the wedding,” he expressed his firm stance. His decision sparked strong reactions from his ex-wife, parents, and girlfriend, all urging him to reconcile for the sake of his daughter. Torn, he questioned, “Am I an a**hole for that?” This family drama, unfolding publicly on Reddit, highlights the challenges of navigating personal boundaries and familial obligations, eliciting mixed responses from the online community.