In a heated Reddit post, a father narrates his refusal to finance his daughter’s wedding after she invited his estranged brother, who had an affair with his then-girlfriend two decades earlier. Despite the father’s long-standing rift with his brother, his daughter secretly built a relationship with him, leading to a confrontation.
HER FATHER HAD A FEUD WITH HIS BROTHER, SO WHEN SHE INVITED HIS BROTHER TO HER WEDDING, HER FATHER REFUSED TO PAY FOR THE WEDDING
“I told her what my boundaries are and if my brother is invited then I will not pay my part of the wedding,” he expressed his firm stance. His decision sparked strong reactions from his ex-wife, parents, and girlfriend, all urging him to reconcile for the sake of his daughter. Torn, he questioned, “Am I an a**hole for that?” This family drama, unfolding publicly on Reddit, highlights the challenges of navigating personal boundaries and familial obligations, eliciting mixed responses from the online community.