I’ve been married to my husband, James, for a year. Recently, his teenage son moved in with us for the summer after living with his mom for the past two years. Yesterday, I discovered a phone hidden in my walk-in closet that had been recording for over 19 minutes. The video showed my stepson secretly placing the phone in my closet while I was in the shower, trying to find out where I kept my wallet. When confronted, he admitted to doing it to get money, citing a psychological disorder linked to compulsive shoplifting. My husband defended his son, saying he needed treatment but insisted he stay for the summer as planned. I felt deeply violated and told my husband I didn’t want his son in our home anymore, but he dismissed my concerns. I’m torn, unsure if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are justified. Any advice on how to approach this when my husband returns?